[basketballbelly]

Can I sugges that you either 1: send her a link to this site and have her read the post, or 2: say those words you just said to us to her.

Keep on doing what you are doing, when you are smaller she will be kicking herself and making statements like, "where did I go wrong" or "I could be as thin as you" but if it were my mom, I would tell her what was bothering me and give her a swift (verbal) kick in the butt and get her on track! My mom passed at age 62 from complications of obesity. I wish I had known then what I know now

Go over this weekend and make her tons of really good inductions foods (recipies you can probably get here) stock her frig so she does not have to do any of the work, she might get on track and stay cheat free for a week if you do that...

Good luck

bbb