Welcome to ADBB, Keria
Luckily for our men members they tend to lose weight more speedily than we do. Somewhere I saw a signature quote that made me chuckle "Men just think about going on a diet and lose pounds, women just think about cheating on their diet and put on pounds"
So your hubby is liable to race ahead on the losing game

and it is a good idea to look for a losing buddy here in a similar position as you are in
Have you discovered our 'Century Club' forum yet? Lots of our members with over a hundred pounds to lose hang out & post there rather than the general forums.