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I am a bit shy yet have always been pretty social. I do better with a smaller group.

Right now, I have no social life and no real friends nearby. I need to do something to get myself out there. Easier said than done though. I commend you for trying! For going out there and doing something to try to improve your life.

A lot of it is confidence. I know that makes a difference. My best friend is overweight and she is beautiful. Between her and I, she is very self conscious. Around other people she is full of confidence and people are drawn to her. Something about her showing confidence...other people don't notice her weight, they are just drawn to her. That is something I have tried to work on.

Well, kind of babbling here but just wanted you to know you aren't alone.

Take care! Jane