I completely agree. My daily "non-marriage" is exactly what has kept me on an emotional eating binge for the past 2-3 years. I finally decided that allowing him to make me feel bad about myself which in turn sent me to the fridge or pantry was no going to be allowed anymore. I still feel bad, but I don't allow my feelings to be compounded with guilt over what I put in my mouth. It is a daily struggle to stay on track. Don't give up - you are not alone
