[bluerain324]

Congrats on focusing on YOU, and not everyone else around you making you crazy! I know how you feel. My son and I moved out of my mothers home this time last year, it has been wonderful. No anti depressants, no carbs, have lost 60 lbs... and I have fingernails from less stress, haha. Sometimes that's just what it takes. It seems selfish before you actually get into it, but the results are very worthwhile. Forget about your ex, once a junky, always a junky. Something in their brain is just different than the rest of us normal people. Focus on your grandbaby... and making yourself as happy as you can.