[Mothercooter]

Thanks for all the advice. This isnt just some rash decision. I have been thinking about it for years now. We have been together for 6 years (only married for 3) and I have been "faking it" for that long. Its not like we just lost the romance...it was never there. I thought if it was going to come, it would have in 6 years but it never did. Instead, a friendship grew as we got into church and he became a better guy. Still though i have no romantic feelings there. I know it will be a big change for my kids but I also know that I am the one setting the example of love and marriage for them and anyone who is around us for even 10 mins can tell we arent happy when we dont touch, kiss, ect. I guess the worst part is at night when I lie in bed (each on our own side under our seperate blankets) I think about feeling that way about somebody someday and can actually imagine him with someone else who can love him like that. You know there is a prob when you wish your husband would find someone. lol

Im in no rush though and just want to do what is right for everyone. I want us both to be happy and not just the happy we are now, living as friends raising our kids but really in love and I know that exsists somewhere out there.

Oh well thanks for listening.