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Originally Posted by Mothercooter  I thought if it was going to come, it would have in 6 years but it never did. Instead, a friendship grew as we got into church and he became a better guy. Still though i have no romantic feelings there. I know it will be a big change for my kids but I also know that I am the one setting the example of love and marriage for them and anyone who is around us for even 10 mins can tell we arent happy when we dont touch, kiss, ect. I guess the worst part is at night when I lie in bed (each on our own side under our seperate blankets) I |
You're lying there separately. Have you ever thought of moving toward him and cuddling? It almost doesn't even sound like a friendship the way you describe it. At least friends hug sometimes and show affection.
I'm wondering if you cuddled him at night, if it would start something. You have to start from someplace, right? If you try, you'll truly know you did everything you could before splitting. Also, how does HE feel? Have you discussed any of this with him? Maybe he would be more forward with you, which would cause feelings to develop? Feelings can't develop in a vaccuum.