Even though I've lost almost 20 lbs. (well, probably 20 and more by now; I'm not weighing in for awhile
), with almost 30 more to go ...
no one has noticed! 
And, on my frame, 20 lbs. is a big difference, believe me. I don't have family members to bounce this off of ... it's just me and my husband, but I have to say he's been very encouraging and supportive. Which makes me appreciate him all the more!