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March 15th, 2008, 12:01 PM
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__________________ 26 / F / 5'3 - start 9/9/09 210 - 195 - 180 - 165 - 150 -      |
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March 15th, 2008, 12:31 PM
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I totally understand how you feel - I went bathing suit shopping today and thought I was going to have a meltdown in the dressing room. I thought I looked good until I took my clothes of and really looked at my bod.. eewwwww I try to stay positive about what I HAVE accomplished so far. Keep your chin up - You're doing great! 
__________________   5'0/35/Mom of three boys SW 133 CW 104 - GOAL! GW 105-110 |
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March 15th, 2008, 12:55 PM
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This is how you feel now. I am not trying to make those intense feelings feel insignificant. They are what they are and if we all were truthful, we would admit that we have ALL been there. The first statement in my journal stats uses the word GROSS. That is exactly where I started -- feeling like the fat girl and I had a lot of self-loathing and disgust. BUT for me, that is where I started and certainly not where I am going. I have had the highs and the lows and would trade nothing for the way I feel now. I feel in control. Last night I went and picked up a couple of shirts - they are are XL but that is down from XXL and then I would cut the tags out because I was ashamed of being that big. It has been 2 months and I am down 16 pounds. I have about another 35 pounds to go and it will take time but I know that I can do it. You can do it too!! Where you are is temporary and you can change it. Stay strong !!
__________________  Start date - Jan. 15/08, SW-204 Mini goal -185 - March 23/08 Easter morning Milestone - 179 - May 29/08 Milestone - 175 - June 24/08 Milestone - in the 160s and then reassess |
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March 15th, 2008, 01:12 PM
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I totally understand this. The best thing I can say is: 1. I'm not satisfied with how I look today. 2. I'm 145 lbs. over my goal. 3. My clothes don't seem to flatter me. BUT... 4. I'm taking control of the situation and doing something about it. 5. The healthier steps that I'm taking now will affect #1,2,3 forever. 6. I'm 5 lbs. lighter than I was when I started 7 days ago. 7. The scale goes up and down as I'm losing weight. So what! It went up and down as I was gaining it. 8. I haven't cheated, so my eventual progress will outweigh how I feel today. 9. By the time I'm done, I will feel & look so fabulous, I'll skip to the stores with glee! 10. No matter what, I will not give up, success is SO attainable! Stay Strong!
__________________ "Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by renewing your mind."  Challenges: Century Club Fired Up: SW311.4/GW281.4, 19.6/30 lbs, 1010/2500 min.   Read my journal: Kelly's Undercover Atkins Expose' |
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March 16th, 2008, 03:28 AM
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Hang in there, Irish Sarah. I know what you are going through, I had a really down feeling fat couple of days last week. It's so hard when you're being good and really working hard at this and the mirror doesn't seem to want to help you out! I posted all about how I was feeling in the STAC forum and through the wonderful replies there I realised that since starting this WOE I am more aware of what my body actually looks like and therefore more critical. When I was just eating and eating I barely looked in the mirror. Now I look in the mirror every day and try on different clothes every day so I have a much better idea of how I actually look! Also because I'm eating healthy and exercising I want to look better now! Unfortunately it just takes more time than I want it too! Muffin tops that I just tried not to notice before stand out like crazy now because I'm paying more attention! Also, weight fluctuates! Don't weigh yourself every day. There is NO WAY you ACTUALLY gained 4 lbs in one day. There are so many different reasons for the scale to fluctuate. Go to the FAQ section of the board and look for the post about Why the Scale Can Lie. It is a good helper for me when I'm discouraged about the scale. You will be the weight you want to be eventually if you stick with this- we all will be! It's just a long and difficult journey. No one ever said it would be easy but we do know that it is effective and totally, absolutely worth it when we reach goal! But until then, remember that you are working hard at not only making your body into what you want it to be but you are also building habits which will result in good long term health. You should feel really good and proud of yourself for that! It's hard right now, but you'll get there and when you do you will be healthy and hot!! Good luck!
__________________ ~Amy~ 5'7", 24 years old (Re-)Starting Weight- 225-- Current Weight- 164.5 -- Goal Weight- 150 1st mini goal- 200lbs : Met 5 March 2008!l 2nd mini goal- 185lbs : Met 3 December 2008!l 3rd mini goal- 170lbs: Met 5 February 2009! l 4th mini goal- 160lbs l Goal!- 150lbs   |
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March 16th, 2008, 04:35 AM
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We all have those days, both the men and women. You didn't gain 4 lbs in a day, you just happen to weigh 4 lbs more today for any of dozens of reasons. I don't think you ate 16,000 calories yesterday and your body turned all of it into fat. You might want to join the weigh/no weigh challenge and break looking to the scale, it's an evil creature that does you little good while eating right, especially if you look at it daily (or more)
__________________ Ron, 38 y/o Male 5'11"My WOE blog: http://www.atkinsdietbulletinboard.c...2&page=1&pp=10 Starting date: 01/19/2008 Starting Weight: 340 Current Weight: 288.2 Goal Weight: 210 Major Goals and Milestones 299 (BIG GOAL HERE, April 15, 2008 target) GOAL MET 4/04/2008! 265 (Previous atkins low!, July 15, 2008 Target) 249 (Just to be under 250, how good will that be!, September 15, 2008 Target) 230 (High school wrestling weight, December 1, 2008 Target) 210 (NAVY WEIGHT! ULTIMATE GOAL!, February 1, 2009 Target) Current Challenges: CC Fitness Challenge 7/29lbs 1950/4500 minutes Spring into Summer Picture Challenge  |
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March 16th, 2008, 05:28 AM
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Hang in there Irish Sarah.. I think clothes shopping for anyone is a pain in the butt.. especially women.. Even my super skinny daughter...110lbs can't find anything that fits her right. I hate clothes shopping too...but one day it will get better...
__________________ Sandy Christmas 2007  Starting Weight 293 Highest Weight Current Weight 271 Goal Weight 150 Female/40 Mini Goals #1-Get into 260's- #2-Get into 250's- #3-Get into 240's #4-Get into 230's |
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March 16th, 2008, 05:59 PM
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KellyNew4Me2 I love the 10 steps you wrote. I made a mini poster of it, changed a few thingsto fit my results and posted to on my refrigerator door. It should be a helpful guide to NOT CHEAT. Thanks for the great words!!  |
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March 17th, 2008, 12:59 PM
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The main problem (great thing) about the steps I wrote below is, I have to keep changing the numbers because they keep going down! And they will continue to do so. I'm almost afraid of how successful I've been so far. I suppose when you have a lot to lose the results are more dramatic. Keep up the good work. 1. I'm not satisfied with how I look today. 2. I'm 142 lbs. over my goal. 3. My clothes don't seem to flatter me. BUT... 4. I'm taking control of the situation and doing something about it. 5. The healthier steps that I'm taking now will affect #1,2,3 forever. 6. I'm 8 lbs. lighter than I was when I started 9 days ago. 7. The scale goes up and down as I'm losing weight. So what! It went up and down as I was gaining it. 8. I haven't cheated, so my eventual progress will outweigh how I feel today. 9. By the time I'm done, I will feel & look so fabulous, I'll skip to the stores with glee! 10. No matter what, I will not give up, success is SO attainable! Stay Strong!
__________________ "Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by renewing your mind." Challenges: Century Club Fired Up: SW311.4/GW281.4, 19.6/30 lbs, 1010/2500 min. Read my journal: Kelly's Undercover Atkins Expose' Last edited by KellyNew4Me2; March 17th, 2008 at 01:01 PM. Reason: number adjustment |
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