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    Hi All!

    I am a person who started Atkins the first time several years ago - well, just over 5 years ago - before it temporarily became popular.

    To begin with I had a lot of success, but I stopped sooner than I should have. I weighed 274 to start - and I suspect I was higher than that, since I started watching carbs somewhat prior to "officially" starting and weighing myself - and my lowest weight got down into the 180's before I lost my footing. I bounced back to the 200-210 range and pretty much stayed there until this past year when I've been noticing an upward creep again.

    It's interesting looking back I know what my pitfalls were, and hopefully am prepared to avoid them this time. Some were the usual pitfalls - a diet-sabotaging boss (yes for real), and sugar substitutes - and some pitfalls were more specific to me. For example, nuts of all kinds, as well as most cheeses, began causing migraines. (It wasn't due to the diet, as my mother had developed severe migraines at about the same age.) Those nuts had been my "safe-cheating," just-in-case-foods and I was depending on them. So I would eat carbs to help get rid of the migraines - which led to a vicious cycle that was half of what knocked me off the Atkins wagon.

    Also - this was a big thing for me, and is the reason I'm very glad for this bulletin board! - when I started Atkins the first time, no one knew what I was doing. I understand that for a lot of people, friends around you for diets are great moral support. But for me it doesn't work that way. If friends/family take interest in what I'm eating, my motivations get way too complicated. When I started Atkins, no one even knew what a carb was! But, there came a point when people understood I was on a diet, and what it entailed.

    To me, this added to the burden; I was no longer dieting for my own reasons. In fact at one point, after I was already struggling to stay afloat, some friends at church wanted to form a diet support group. I thought that sounded like a good idea. Well it wasn't. At least not for me. After three meetings they kicked me out!

    (I'm very glad for this bulletin board, where there is lots of great advice and encouragement to be shared, without confusing my motivations if I have to make food choices when out with friends.)

    So anyway, as of a week ago my weight had crept back up to 234. . Mmmm. So I dug out my DANDR and began re-reading it. Funny I had been praying for motivation and there it was right there. And I realized, being unemployed right now, of all times this is the time to get a good re-start. I've been doing induction properly - no, almost properly, I think I went a bit over on the veggie soup (homemade with only acceptable veggies) - and I'm off to a good dropping-start so far.

    I've been reading a music forum lately and so it occurred to me to come looking for an Atkins forum. I was quite glad when I found this one. (And especially glad when I saw that you don't advocate the sweeteners and supposedly-low-carb items that I have already learned are very dangerous.)

    I've already tried a great recipe I found on this site & really enjoyed it! And I'm resolved to read the DANDR at least every few days to keep my motivation strong.

    Anyway - sorry for this long intro post - I'm very glad I've found this bulletin board & happy to be here!

    - fiddlejen
    - fiddlejen



    1st start 11/2000
    SW274/low178/maint~210
    ReStart date 1/17/06
    SW234/CW220/GW134

    5'8" 37/F

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    Hello and welcome to the forum. I'm kind of wondering why you got kicked out of a support group. That must have been a little nerve-racking. It sounds like you know exactly where you messed up in the past so I believe this time around will work out well for you. Stop down at the Second Time Around Board. There's a bunch of us there doing this again.

    Age: 42
    Height: 5'5"





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      Re: Starting Again

      Well as to why I got kicked out of the group... let's see the precipitating factor was when I disagreed with something one of the other women read aloud, from one of those women's magazines, and said so. It was one of those articles that seem to be really encouraging and inspiring, yet all the while implying that there's something mentally wrong with you for being overweight.

      However, more than that I think we had different ideas about what type of group we were. I and one of the others had both (individually) gone to OA and we each thought it had some good points as well as some problems.

      So, I just kind of assumed we were in agreement about what our group was to be, when actually we had very opposite ideas. I thought that, while we didn't need to all do the exact same diet, we should all be in basic agreement nutritionally. And we weren't. Or at least I wasn't!

      Anyway, I was told I was rude (which I'm not sure I really was), or at least that my attitude was wrong (which I guess it was, for a "support group," since I was unwilling to be unequivocally supportive). It was indeed a rather stressful & unpleasant experience.

      Oh, and yes, I did notice the Second Time Around board, and find it quite interesting - very glad to find others like myself who've taken a pause and ready to get started again!
      - fiddlejen



      1st start 11/2000
      SW274/low178/maint~210
      ReStart date 1/17/06
      SW234/CW220/GW134

      5'8" 37/F

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        Re: Starting Again

        Well, my goodness, those others in that group don't sound very supportive. It's a blessing that you got "kicked out" then. lol

        Age: 42
        Height: 5'5"





        PLEDGING FLIGHTS CHALLENGE
        Virtual Buildings Finished!
        Currently climbing Mount Everest, Nepal 47,720/58,070

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        • #5
          Re: Starting Again

          Welcome to the forum! Sounds like you are on the right track. ADBB is a great place for support, recipes, dieting buddies, you name it!

          As for the support group....wow. Not very supportive of them to kick people out for expressing their opinions!
          ~Allie
          Female 23 5'7''
          HW303/CW264.4/GW160
          First mini-goal: 250
          14.4 lbs to go!
          March AB Challenge: 950/1500 Completed!
          Miles for March: 17/40 miles walked






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          • #6
            Re: Starting Again

            Fiddlejen,

            Welcome to the board, and congratulations on your decision to take charge of your health and your life. Also, way to go in turning a negative (your unemployment) into a positve environment for change. Without the stress and hassle of going to work, you can eat a clean induction. It is essential that you stay clean and follow the induction menu accurately. Almost perfect will slow you down.

            Good luck with your induction. We are here for support and advice.
            Rick
            38 - Male - Houston
            Restarting 1/4/10

            250/245/200

            If you continue to do as you've always done, you will continue to get what you've always got.

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            • #7
              Re: Starting Again

              Hi Jen and welcome to ADBB!

              You'll love the board and all of the support!!

              Hope to see you around!
              Shelly

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              • #8
                Re: Starting Again

                Hi fiddlejen,

                I just wanted to take timeout to welcome you, and congratulate you on a very sound, positive choice you've made by one, joining this board, and two, adopting this WOE (Way of Eating).

                My name is Mike, and I am a Boot Camp recruit currently on Day Eight of induction. I STRONGLY recommend you go out for Boot Camp when the next one comes around (Should be in a few weeks). The insight, motivation, discipline and, most importantly, the STRUCTURE you get from Boot Camp is matchless.

                Anyway, again I welcome you, and if there's anything I can do to assist you on this WOE, don't hesitate to PM me.

                Unleashed


                6'3" male/36 yrs old.
                HW:285/CW:285/GW:230


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                • #9
                  Re: Starting Again

                  Hello. Welcome to the board. I hope the ADBB meets all your expectations for support and information that will help you get healthy and lose weight. Its been a life-saver for me. Best wishes!!
                  Starting Date 3/12/04 285/165/145 - F



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