slept off another pound

[chrisie_20]

Well it is day 5 and I slept off another pound last night. I promised myself I wouldn't get on the scale everday, but I have to say I am getting addicted. (as long as these pounds keep coming off ) I am so proud of myself. I can't believe how well it is going this time. This is my third time "seriously" being on Atkins. The first time I lost 50 pounds in two months then I got married and I let my best friend convice me to have a piece of my wedding cake. She said it would be bad luck if I didn't. I know it sounds silly that that one piece of cake would be my down fall, but it was. I just couldn't get back on track after that sweet treat. Then I got pregnant with my third child. After I had her I went back on it and was on it for a month and only lost like maybe 3 pounds and was so discouraged at all that hard work and all the small loss that I just gave up. It seemed like it was all for nothing. I don't know what was going on. I tried again a few times in between all this but without success. I just couldn't get "back on". But here I go "again" on my third and final try. I know I am back in the saddle this time. I feel like I did the first time. And, now I know not to make that mistake again. A carb junkie is much like any other junkie. You just can't go back. I am having quite a bit of success. I am by no means trying to rub it in if I sound that way to anyone that is having trouble. That is why I told a part of my story. I have had just as much trouble as anyone. And, you know what it finally took to get me here. I finally made my husband be honest with me. And before any of you give him a slap over the head I asked for it and I am glad that we have the kind of relationship that he can be honest with me. It took me asking him several times and telling him that I really wanted the truth, but he gave it to me. I asked him a few weeks ago if he was really actracted to me. And he said yes. I said no, I mean like you were when I was smaller. (I was A LOT smaller when we met. ) He lied at first and said yes baby I love you no matter what. I said I want you to tell me the truth I need you to tell me the truth no matter what it is. He said fine than no I am not. I love and you and think you are beautiful, but no I am not as attracted to u as I was. I know it sounds harsh. But, it kicked my but into gear. It kicked me out of the woe is me mode. And, in to that I am going to do something about the butt following me around mode. I can do this and I am going to do this. ONE POUND AT A TIME.

[kkat55]

Hi Chrisie!

Congratulations on your success so far!!!

There are a few of us on Induction -- Day Six and if you want to join us on that thread, we'd love to have you.

If you ever get stuck with your weight or inches, just post what you are eating in the forum "Review my Menu" (http://www.atkinsdietbulletinboard.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=50) and one of the veterans can tell you if something you're eating is messing you up or stalling you. Please don't get frustrated; especially when it may be only one thing that is sabotaging your efforts.

Also, there are quite a few exercise challenges going on right now that you might like to join. Exercise always seems to speed up the results by helping you lose inches. So, it may be something you might like to consider.

Best wishes on your journey!

~Kat

[Sirine]

Thanks for posting that...My husband and I have the same relationship! He said the same thing basically, only because I asked for it! It really does make you want to work harder!!! When we first got married (5 years ago) I was at 110 MAX and after having our daughter I went all the way up to 180 .. I can say that I actually became depressed and it wasn't helping our relationship...My mom always told me if things aren't going right in life, you're the only one that can change yourself to make it better...and it is sooo true. I have now lost a little over 50LBS and I feel great! (ha ha I sound like I'm on that jenny craig commercial) Anyway good luck to you and DON'T GIVE UP!!!!!!

[donkey23]

I must lose a lot of water weight when sleep because, when I went to bed I was 229.5 and when I woke up I was 225. 2 bottles of water later I am sure I am back up there.

[chrisie_20]

Thanks Sirine...I think it is hard to hear those words from a loved one...especially from your husband. But, I think it is a wonderful relationship to have. I think to be able to have that kind of honesty is wonderful.